South Jordan Dad Longs for Sons Spirited Away to Japan by Mom

Source:http://www.sltrib.com/2003/Jan/01192003/utah/21603.asp

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Michael Gulbraa, holding photographs of Christopher, left, and Michael, has recently seen the boys while on a visit to Japan in December. , Trent Nelson/The Salt Lake TribuneMichael Gulbraa has kept the room his sons lived in the same since his ex-wife took 13-year-old Michael and 12-year-old Christopher and returned to her native Japan. Gulbraa has been told that authorities there do not believe a crime has been committed. (Trent Nelson/The Salt Lake Tribune)

BY ASHLEY BROUGHTON
THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE

January 19, 2003


    Two Christmases have come and gone, but the one thing Michael Gulbraa really wants remains out of reach, thousands of miles away.
    A downstairs room in his South Jordan home remains ready for his sons, 13-year-old Michael and 12-year-old Christopher. Presents from holidays past sit unopened, waiting to be claimed. The boys' faces can be seen on Web sites, their names on lists of missing children.
    But Michael and Christopher were not snatched by a stranger, police say. Their abductor was their own mother, Gulbraa's ex-wife, who returned with them to her native Japan in November 2001, violating a temporary restraining order requiring her to stay in Utah.
    Although that restraining order was dissolved, Etsuko Tanizaki Allred and her husband, Daren Allred, have refused to return Michael and Christopher despite orders from judges, a lawsuit and even the filing of state and federal charges against them. Her defense attorney did not comment Friday.
    "I just want this to be over," said Gulbraa, who was awarded custody of his sons in April.
    Law enforcement has historically viewed parental abductions as a private family matter. It has only been in recent years -- the past decade, perhaps -- that attitudes have begun changing and more attention is has been paid to such cases, even as the number of abductions decline.

    In 1988, according to the 1990 U.S. Department of Justice's National Incidence Studies of Missing, Abducted, Runaway and Thrownaway Children (NISMART), there were as many as 354,100 family abductions. In the second NISMART report, released in October, an estimated 203,900 children were abducted by family members in 1999.
   
   Scant Attention: A December 2001 report released by the federal Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention, which analyzed 1992 data and visited several areas, including Salt Lake County, showed "a criminal justice system paying relatively scant attention to the crime of parental abduction." In 1992, only 30,500 police reports were registered on parental abduction, and only 4,500 people were arrested, despite the fact that parental abduction is a crime in all 50 states.
   Often lost, researchers say, is "the focus on the child as victim," rather than the parent left behind. The lost contact with one parent is detrimental to children, they point out, but even if the child is returned, he or she may experience difficulty adjusting, be confused by conflicting stories or suffer if taken from the abducting parents and placed with a parent he or she does not know well.
   
   'Sticky Points': Authorities generally agree parental-abduction cases now are being taken more seriously, possibly in tandem with other formerly "private family" crimes, such as incest or domestic violence. But circumstances can cloud the issue for state and federal investigators.
    "Part of the problem we run into in the parental kidnappings is if there's joint custody," said George Dougherty, spokesman for the FBI's Salt Lake City field office. "If a couple are having problems in their marriage, and the dad takes the kids and moves to Saudi Arabia . . . what do you do? There's so many sticky points to all that."
    For state officials, prosecuting such cases can be expensive and time-consuming. And even if a conviction on custodial interference, a third-degree felony, is obtained, a judge is likely to sentence the offending parent to time already served or possibly a short jail term.
    Gulbraa said the Farmington police were among the few local officials who cooperated in his case from the beginning.
    The department has no set policy for parental abductions, other than "we definitely get on it and investigate it," said Lt. Shane Whittaker. Since child abductions have gained attention in recent years, and tools such as the Rachel Alert have been developed, police have had more success gathering and disseminating information.
   
   Couple Charged: Gulbraa said when he approached county prosecutors about the case, he was told the office was loath to get involved because "it was a lot of money for nothing." But he pressed on, and eventually Etsuko Allred and Daren Allred were each charged in September 2002 with two third-degree felony counts of custodial interference.
    A federal complaint, also filed in September, charges the Allreds with international parental kidnapping and aiding and abetting a fugitive -- presumably, each other. Gulbraa has high praise for federal authorities. "The FBI, boy, they jumped all over it," he said, with one agent telling him, "If it were my kids, I'd be going nuts."
    Where the children are headed can make a large difference, authorities said, particularly if, like Michael and Christopher Gulbraa, they are taken overseas. Whether the United States has an extradition agreement with their country of destination can become a major issue, snarling investigators in red tape, Dougherty, the FBI spokesman, said.
    At the Hague Conference on Private International Law in 1976, 23 nations agreed to draft a treaty to deter abductions. Currently, the United States and 50 other countries have signed the Hague Convention, agreeing to return abducted children.
    Japan, however, is not a signee of the Hague Convention. In fact, Gulbraa has been told, authorities there do not believe a parent can abduct a child, and so do not believe a crime has been committed.
    Even if a country's government will allow it, most law enforcement agencies lack the funding and staff to send officers overseas to retrieve the children.
   
   Will Not Let Up: Gulbraa has recently seen the boys, spending about six hours with them over two days in December while on a visit to Japan. But their mother required chaperones to accompany the three and has refused to hand over their passports, and Gulbraa knows he cannot take the boys back home without travel documents.
   Gulbraa says he will not let up in pressuring authorities to return his sons, and some agencies' reluctance to get involved in such cases makes him angry. "If anybody deserves protection for anything, it's the children," he said.
    aebroughton@sltrib.com